Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Why this girl hates her father?

I just read a true story about a girl and her father and it made me sad. It was a 12 year old girl that hated her father. She said how she wishes he would die she was embarred by her father b/c of his looks. He was a very attractive, caring, loving, man she said all her friends had crushes on him even the friends mothers would come over and flirt with him she hated that. When her father grew ill she was disgusted by him and told her friend she hopes he dies the problem is he heard it and it hurt him. Her fathers illness almost killed him and she got upset when it didn't. She said how her father treated her how any great parent would and showed her unconditional love but that wasn't enough for her. She said how she would say horrible things to her father trying to get him to hit or beat her so she could live with her mother she said all she heard him do in his room was cry. He never hit her and that made her mad. She said she loved her mom and wanted to live with her. But here's the problem her father got custody of her and said she was a unfit mother. She didn't believe it until she went to see her mother and this is what she had to say. The mother told her flat out that she didn't want her and her father was the only reason she was standing before her. She wanted a abortion but her father said no. She told her how she hated her and said she was still in love with her father and said if she had killed her her father and her would be together. She hates her daughter b/c in her mind she is the reason the father doesn't want her. If she had it her way she would be dead. She was a teenager when her mother told her this she cried of course and her father got so mad at the mother and didn't want his daughter to see her again. Her father cried too as he held her. Wow this must have changed her feelings for her dad NO. She took the moms side and said she felt sorry for her b/c the dad was successful and rich and the mom was poor and a druggie. she hated how her dad had a perfect life and her mom didn't. many people made a monster out of this little witch by telling her it was ok and that its normal she'll grow out of it but she didn't she's worse. because no one sat down and told her she was wrong she believes she is right in treating her father like this the dad is amazing b/c if it was me she would be living with her druggie mom who hates her. why do people try to justify kids actions and try to make it so that there actions arent bad but normal and its ok? you create monsters this way don't you see. I'm sure a lot of you will see nothing wrong with this brat but I do she needs mental help. and to think about how many kids dream to have a father like him upsets me. a lot of people would do anything to meet there dads. why do people try to baby kids or teens (especially teen girls) into making them think they did nothing wrong that its a phrase this girl is grown and still treats her father like crap why? b/c no one told her even at a younger age it was wrong do you see how some people make monsters? if you do this why do you feel its ok to baby kids into thinking there not wrong?

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